Date number 3 with Finn was last night. We planned on getting delivery and catching up on some DVR shows at his house and possibly me helping him decorate his tree. I got a migraine earlier in the day and ended up leaving work early to take a nap in hopes of feeling better in … Continue reading Am I The Dude Here?
Author: parlendezvous
Gold Star
A little back story on me. I have hinted before about how much I love my favorite musicians and seeing them perform live. I travel to see them whenever possible because I cannot get enough and being at their shows is my happy place. I have seen my top two favorites almost 100 times between … Continue reading Gold Star
Drunkin’ Donuts
Ah, the age old question - "Why are you still single?" Or in my mind, "What is wrong with you?" I had my second date with Finn and we met at a local restaurant and bar for drinks. It was just as easy with him as the first was, which is a relief because I was … Continue reading Drunkin’ Donuts
Sabotage
Welcome to how my brain tries to ruin a good thing. After my first date with Finn where I learned his last name, I looked him up on Facebook. You know the featured photos section? Four of the five pics are of him with his ex. Now, I know he's a dude and men aren't typically … Continue reading Sabotage
Warm Fuzzies
FinnI woke up this morning to a text from Finn that he sent right after I went to bed and put my phone on Do Not Disturb. I woke up before 5 am for some reason and that was the first thing I saw. I replied that I didn't want to wake him, but I … Continue reading Warm Fuzzies
11/29/17
Finn I ended up going on the date with Finn the other night. I arrived first and was waiting in the parking lot, texting Lena. He had previously sent me a picture from inside his vehicle and I deduced from the interior that he drove a Dodge Ram. A white Dodge Ram pulled into the lot … Continue reading 11/29/17
JFC
Yesterday, while chatting with Finn, I made the bold (in my mind) move of asking him when we were going to meet. He had asked me both Friday and Saturday via text it I had any plans and I told him no. When I said this on Saturday, I also added that I typically don't … Continue reading JFC
Many Matches, Minimal Results
Thanksgiving weekend was the longest weekend ever. I'm not really complaining about it, but I am a little bit. But only because there was a lot of potential, followed by a lot of nothing. The Tuesday & Wednesday before Thanksgiving, I matched with several guys and sent them messages. Finn Finn replied fairly quickly and … Continue reading Many Matches, Minimal Results
Holiday Inflation & Abrupt Dismissals
Remember how I ran out of potential matches? Now, suddenly there seems to be an endless supply, but they're not truly local. The app says they are X number of miles away, but for those that actually write stuff in their profile, they often will put their residency history (GA>SC>PA>DC>WA) or a comment such as "just … Continue reading Holiday Inflation & Abrupt Dismissals
11/15/17
Ryan Wachs (yes, again) Remember when I messaged Ryan on my way home from my date with Dale? If you're too lazy to click the link or you've forgotten already, I stated in that post that I texted him asking if he was done having fun with me. Truth is, that was me being polite because I was … Continue reading 11/15/17